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You're Lying to Yourself, That's Why You Can't Find Happiness

You're Lying to Yourself, That's Why You Can't Find Happiness

The only one who can change you is you.

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Bryan Dijkhuizen
May 23, 2024
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You’re living in your own lies.

If you know it’s true, you won’t feel offended by it but if you do feel offended by what I just said, you know it’s true.

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Either way, it’s true.

And it’s all about you daring to change yourself, living the life you want to live. Let’s talk more about this with each other. Society has got a little flat instead of building in-depth conversations and relationships.

“Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.”

— Roy T. Bennett.

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We don’t want these superficial relationships and connections — we need more deep connections with the people we like.

That’s why I’ve dedicated my 20s to building a true relationship with a hand full of people that I can trust for a lifetime and learning to communicate with myself as well.

And stop lying about being fine.

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